Playing Single
Why are you single? Still single ar? Why? No guys in UPM? No guys going after you? Really? Are you that busy? Argh.. so sick. Common questions. Got so much of it that it becomes so cliche.
Reminds me of a conversation over dinner. We were happily enjoying our zhi bao ji (chicken wrapped in paper) somewhere near mines. [Ho Chiak!!] Then someone asked the question, "Eh Eugenie, you’re still single ar?" "Yes??!!" "Why ar??" One smart friend added " i know why. i know why" "why??" "Because I think she felt this is not the right time yet. Somehow I felt she wanna enjoy somemore freedom" (Brian)
At that moment, I thought he spoke my heart out. I wouldnt say this friend know me well but then he was right. I just feel contented. At least till now,I haven’t really felt the urge to attach to any. I’ve had the best (I believe). So, the next one? I dont know. ;P There were good guys along the way but I felt god say just wait
One night after a hectic day, I returned to my room. On the way up the stairs, i noticed 2 scenes. First girl i met laughing and chatting happily with her bf on the mobile. I smiled. Second girl i met had tears in her eyes and i heard her say ,"so you don’t love me anymore?" puzzled. (Fact 1:I stay on the top floor. Fact 2:girls like to talk on the stairs) love has its own beautiful and ugly sides. it’s true.bitter sweet ,yea?? take time and think bout it..
So you ask me.. am i gonna stay single forever? oh please, no. (i hope not. evil laugh) my hormones are much higher than that. haha. i believe every girl needs (at least) a good guy friend. vice versa
ps. let me introduce my room mate.
yong sing.. i get to hear nice songs everyday.. she’s singing next to me now as i blog.
October 21st, 2006 at 9:18 pm
single…hmm…
single better than suffer
=p
October 21st, 2006 at 9:38 pm
interesting.. what makes you say so?
October 22nd, 2006 at 6:41 am
we’re in the same boat too…:P dunno what i feel about this la..got ma good, none also let it be la..hopefully god din call me to be a celibate?!!gone case…hehehehe…
October 23rd, 2006 at 8:09 am
celibate? we are both not capable. haha..
October 24th, 2006 at 3:52 am
hey bet im 1 of those who kept askin tat ques huh? tats y u paste ur blog add fer me in msn..haha ok..hmm..o mayb i can say tat ur a lil bit 2 choosy??..
October 25th, 2006 at 11:47 pm
love is wonderful..but it can hurt u like hell too..being single is prob free..so mite as well stay single til the right person comes along..yea?
November 13th, 2006 at 11:58 pm
hrm? how would u know that he/she is the right one? prob we assume so all the time.
hello guys, it’s been a while since i commented here… hehe, since when she stopped blogging after easter. it’s good that you’re back sin sing. hehe! in the same boat now, i guess i would at least understand a little of what you’re going through…
November 14th, 2006 at 4:49 am
imagine if we actually know who our perfect match would be, then there would be less heartaches, less frustration, and less pain. but we will lose out on those experiences and memories.being single is very much problem free. niway, for the mean time *toast for the singles*
June 25th, 2007 at 7:49 pm
not anymore….she’s in love liao…hehe
kacau here also darling…
love u lots….